18+: random thoughts, ideas, and explorations I wish to share, to encourage dialogue and creative adventures

Category: couch talk

it’s life: who wants to celebrate it with me?

I think we can all agree that we find ourselves in situations where things feel fragile, hopeless, and that one more step is going to be our end. well, as much as we can agree on this, it doesn’t necessarily have to be true.
I can only speak from life situations that I am experiencing, [...]

where do you want to see yourself in 2020?

wow doesn’t 2020 look so I don’t know, AMAZING!
I had a thought…….
where do you see yourself in 2020?
where will you be living?
what will you be using for means of transportation?
what kind of clothing will you wish to wear?
how will you acquire your food?
what kind of relationship will you be in?
what kind of music [...]

grounding state of mind

I love feeling grounded. When I am in connected in, I am able to easily drift away to my hippie goddess state of mind. The place where I prefer to be. It takes me time, self improvement, and patience to establish longer lasting durations of my groundingness. Each cycle of growth [...]

why do we suppress our sexuality?

*couch talk
when you think in life what brings you pleasure, and I’m talking of the sensory kind, the pleasure of the feel, the touch, the desire, not the pleasure of a project well done, or party well executed…..I’m talking about pleasure…..our sexuality
why is it that we suppress our sexuality, or are thought of as taboo [...]

his love helped me find the love in me

*couch talk*
my mind is so peaceful yet so full of inspiration and vision. I started to have these moments on a regular basis when shone and I got together. It’s a beautiful journey, I’m so grateful for every single thought and exploration. I have learned more about myself over the past years [...]

sexuality needs an outlet

couch talk:
would you consider yourself a creative person (and by all means creativity comes in all different avenues, so whatever you do don’t sell yourself short!!!) ? what level of creativity would you rank yourself on a scale of 1-10? how important is your creative life to you, the part of your human [...]

reactions: if you were sitting on the couch with me right now this is what I would be talking about

A major life occurring pattern just became aware to me tonight in a 100% okay I finally get it now manner. A theme that has entered my thoughts through 3 different channels. The theme: Reactions.
1. I read about reaction decision making and the weaknesses it contributes to in Seth Godin’s Tribes:
2. [...]